Choosing the right pet for your family

The benefits of pet ownership are undeniable. Numerous studies have shown that people who own pets live longer, healthier lives. Pets are a constant source of unconditional love. They don't complain about their owner's annoying habits, and they don't judge humans who put on a few pounds.

Yet many people often overlook the most important factors when selecting a pet. For some people, "cute" is the only criteria, which can lead to disastrous consequences. Puppies don't look quite so cute when they're chewing furniture or relieving themselves on that new Oriental rug.

Lack of foresight is one of the top reasons an estimated 6 million to 8 million unwanted pets end up at animal shelters each year.

Dr. Diane Pomerance, author of the new book, "Pet Parenthood: Adopting the Right Animal Companion For You," wants to help prospective pet parents understand how to best choose a new pet as well as recognize that pet adoption is a lifetime commitment and responsibility that requires much thought and planning.

"There's no denying the attraction to a cute puppy or kitten," said Pomerance. "But people need to be fully prepared for what's truly involved in caring for that animal. They are basically bringing a child into their home, a child who needs plenty of attention, an abundance of patience and a lot of time."

Pets make wonderful companions for children and can help teach youths about compassion, responsibility and respect for all living creatures as well as boost their selfesteem. But it's important to determine ahead of time what type of animal best suits the household and what role each family member will take in caring for it.

Pomerance said, "Parents should let their children spend time with pets at a friend's or relative's house before they're allowed to have their own pet. Not all children are at the stage where they've developed the sensitivity needed to take care of a pet and treat it properly.

Some children may also wind up becoming jealous of the attention showered on a new pet. So parents must be wise in discerning when it's the right time to adopt a pet and be ready not only to supervise but to assume overall responsibility for the pet's care and well-being."

"Pet Parenthood" points out other issues:

+How will adopting a pet change my life and daily routine?

+If I become seriously ill or die, who will care for my pet?

+Does the pet realistically fit my lifestyle?

+Do I have enough space and time to play with and exercise an animal?

+Can I handle cleaning a litter box or birdcage or cleaning up after a dog?

+If I already have pets, will it be a problem introducing a new animal into the family?

Money also comes into play when adopting a new pet. "Pets can be expensive and time intensive," said Pomerance. "So it is important to understand the costs and responsibilities ahead of time when choosing your pet."

"Pet Adoption" is available at Borders Books, Barnes & Noble and on Amazon.com.

Pomerance has a PhD in communications and is certified as a grief recovery specialist. She has a special interest in those mourning the loss of a beloved animal companion. Pomerance created, established and serves as director of the Pet Grief Counseling Program for the SPCA of Texas. She is also an active member of K9 Friends Visiting Therapy Dogs and the Alaskan Malamute Assistance League.